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I'm so nervous to see my boyfriend who's been gone for basic training?

My boyfriend has been gone for 2 months to basic training, and I finally get to see him in 3 days! :) I'm super excited, but I'm also nervous. Is it normal to be nervous? I don't know what to expect. He's made it seem, in his letters, like he was going to propose to me..I'm so nervous!

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  • 8 years ago
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    Do not stand there waiting for him to get down on one knee, if he DOES great, if he does NOT then also great..................Just go, enjoy and wear something nice that does NOT show everything you have got.

    Very normal to be nervous / excited btw.

  • 8 years ago

    I can understand your worry. Myself and my wife for over 38 years and going went through the exact same thing. I came home from boot camp on my first leave proposed and got married just like what he's may be doing.

    Don't worry. It's very normal and a normal response. Most likely, he's about as nervous as your are too. I know I was. And I hope he does propose. But you must be sure that if he does and you accept, that you go into the relationship/marriage with your eyes open and with the understanding that there may and will be periods of long separation during his enlistment and time in the service. This in itself can take a toll on new marriages. I would recommend seeking out other military newlyweds and get their opinions on what it would be like.

    I'm sure that there are some Facebook Pages for Military newlyweds that you could look at. Also below are a couple of sites you could go to also.

    Hope this helps.

  • 5 years ago

    Good grasp in there, I comprehend it sucks. When my Husband went through army general, it used to be very rough. We were most effective engaged at the time, but still. He will be very trustworthy, it can be no longer like they would put them in lethal harm's manner. You get a faster response from writing letters. But he has to go through processing first, which probably takes a few week or two. They are able to in most cases call on the weekends, or when they're given time. They are not ALLOWED CELLPHONES. IF he calls you from a mobilephone telephone, tell him goodbye and hang up on him. If a DI catches him on a cellphone, they'll recycle him, or get him into a number of main issue. Simply have him purchase a mobile card and phone you when he will get cross. As for you, you have to exit and hang around with associates. Or speak to someone. Try not to spend time by using your self. It just makes it worse. And if you need any person to speak to that's been there, electronic mail me, and i will offer you my phone number so that you may textual content me adequate? Hang in there, it is now not that lengthy. And when he comes back, you'll be able to have a few month collectively :)

  • J
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Where is the military question?

    He may have changed do to military training but he's the same person.

    Source(s): Former member Canadian Army Reserve Infantry
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