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Why do some people have it so easy in life?
I know everyone has to struggle once in a while, and sure I may sound selfish. But I am sick and tired of working all day to improve myself, and get a good life. But I always fail. So theres this girl, I met her when I was small her life is super easy and gets things handed down to her.
-She was born into a family that is well respected
-lives ina mansion
- has a loving and supporting family
- can afford to buy anything she wants and does not have to worry about food being missing from the table
- She even said it herself, her life is easy
- good grades in school, without even trying
But I have to admit she is kind, but the thing that gets me pissed off is that she bullied me all through 3-6th grade. Everyone sees the nice side of her, but no one has ever seen her mean side. I was suicidal because of her.
I was born into
- suicidal, bipolar mother
- Crazy father who I have never had a bond with, blames me for eveything abusive
- Raped by my first boyfriend ever
- Struggle to help my sisters, support my mother and listen to her eventhough she abused me physically and emotionally through my childhood
-Bullied at school
-Struggle alot in school, even though i do all my work
- Have to deal with family problems
- Have depression, went to a counselor but it didn't work
- Broken family, almost raped by a family member
-have always been called the ugly child, especially when young, adults would make fun of me because I was a late bloomer
- Have to take care of suicidal friend, because she is always telling me she will kill herself.
I know I sound super selfish, and for that I am sorry. The girl I just talked about just won a competition and it gets me so angry how she will never pay for what she did to me. I sound like a total A hole, but I am sick of working and others getting things handed down to them.:( I know that there is others with a much worse life, and that my issues sound minuscule compared to theirs. I am just super tired of it. And I admit it I am jealous. But I cant help it. I feel guilty and horrible for feeling this way, when I should not.
4 Answers
- travaler_teacherLv 48 years ago
Some people like this girl you talk about have things easy in life because they are spoiled brats, sheltered and are too lazy to go out and dig their own wells.
Looking at your life and her life, I can tell you that I share a balance of experiences of both you and her. Like her, I came from a comfortable home and a supportive family even though my parents did not have a good marriage. And like you I struggled in school, I had depression and fought it, and I never had much of a good social life because people (especially those in my religious organization) never accepted me for who I am.
Now look where I am today. I am a professional teacher living and working in South Korea and I have a good salary with good money-saving benefits and I get to travel on my vacation times. If I can do it, so can you and I wish you the best and success. You may be whipped in fire but in the future you will come out shining even brighter than gold.
- 8 years ago
Life sucks sometimes. I know thats going to seem like an underestimate and this is a little cheesy, but the people who have the most challenges have the most character. The people who have it good won't know how to deal if something happens.
We know what to do, and we can fix the problem. We know how to move on without feeling too low.
So even though life is tough, if something else happens would you rather deal with it or go crying like that girl would?
Hope this helps.
Source(s): Life? - ?Lv 58 years ago
If life was fair, there would be no such thing as free will (someone/something would have to enforce the fairness, right?). The choices of others affect us all because we live in a society.
I'm not saying a good choice means someone else has to make a bad choice. I'm just saying that people are bound to make bad choices and all those bad choices have to accumulate somewhere. You are the product of some of those bad choices (the ones made by your parents). Break the cycle!
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