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How to tell if it's a date?

So, throughout the semester this guy would always ask how my day was or how i was doing when we would see each other in passing. I always thought he was nice and cute, but had a boyfriend at the time and was very much committed to him. Well after my boyfriend and I broke up I ran into this other guy in a bar and he said how he had thought I was always cute, but knew I had a boyfriend and didn't want to cross any boundaries. He also mentioned if I was ever in his town over the summer that we should hang out. So, we continued to talk all that night and flirted a little bit and exchanged numbers. We texted a little bit, but not a whole lot after that, saw each other at a party and talked there a little bit, but not a whole lot. Now that's it's summer we've talked a few times, but not much, but today when he texted me he asked what I was up to and when I said I was looking forward to going out of town soon he mentioned how I should come visit him. Well, coincidentally one of the places I'm visiting is where he lives, so he wants to basically spend a day together in the city and is willing to plan it all out, which I am all for. However, since we barely ever talk I don't know if I should consider this a date or just two people hanging out?

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  • 8 years ago
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    what does it matter what you call it ??? if you out together and have fun does it matter what label you slap on it ???? stop overthinking everything and just enjoy life

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