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Is he asking me out or no?

So, throughout the semester this guy would always ask how my day was or how i was doing when we would see each other in passing. I always thought he was nice and cute, but had a boyfriend at the time and was very much committed to him. Well after my boyfriend and I broke up I ran into this other guy in a bar and he said how he had thought I was always cute, but knew I had a boyfriend and didn't want to cross any boundaries. He also mentioned if I was ever in his town over the summer that we should hang out. So, we continued to talk all that night and flirted a little bit and exchanged numbers. We texted a little bit, but not a whole lot after that, saw each other at a party and talked there a little bit, but not a whole lot. Now that's it's summer we've talked a few times, but not much, but the other day when he texted me he asked what I was up to and when I said I was looking forward to going out of town soon he mentioned how I should come visit him (which until then I didn't know he had actually been serious about hanging out). Well, coincidentally one of the places I'm visiting is where he lives, so he wants to basically spend a day together in the city and is willing to plan it all out, which I am all for. However, since we barely ever talk I don't know if I should consider this a date or just two people hanging out?

Also, are some guys just not big on texting (most guys I know are, especially if they're interested in someone) or do you think he would have made more of an effort to contact me if was interested in that way?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I think he just wants to f*ck you. I don't think he really really likes you. If a guy likes a girl, he would mark his territory, ask the girl out on a date..literally say a date...or close to it, and tell her he likes her. I think he's settling right now. He got nobody else, so he'll play with you in the meantime. Asking you out or not is irrelevant...of course he's asking you out, but what's more important is behind it.

  • 8 years ago

    He is asking you out.

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