Is this common with all men, how do I cure it?

Hey buddy! Going through your query this is not a big issue. Stop being afraid

Here is a reply just go through it

Premature ejaculation is associated with infrequent sex, men with low frequencies of sexual activity often get extra excited and aroused,

It can manifest as performance anxiety when sex presents itself.

Symptoms of ejaculation:

The main symptom of ejaculation is that the incidence of ejaculation that takes place prior each partner would perform sexual activity. This might then result in feelings of stress or worry. The condition will even occur throughout masturbation. Ejaculation could also be categorized as primary or lifelong and secondary or temporary. Primary or lifelong ejaculation is claimed to occur once a person ejaculates at a moment of vaginal penetration. The person may additionally be unable to delay ejaculation and negative feelings of frustration and rejection might develop as a result. Secondary or temporary ejaculation has equivalent symptoms as primary ejaculation apart from one. It happens once a person has done satisfying sexual interactions antecedently while not facing any issues in ejaculation.

 Causes premature ejaculation

• There’s not one cause; it’s a combination of factors.

• Some believe anxiety is the culprit, repetitive learned behaviors, excessive or insufficient arousal, or muscular tension. They’re all associated,

• Addressing each of them is the key to curing premature ejaculation.

 Methods to Stop Premature Ejaculation

• Wear a condom.

• Use an analgesic creams and sprays

• Apply strategic pressure

• Slow down intercourse

Good that you shared your problem hope the answer will help & satisfy you.

Regards.

I get a thing where I get no feeling but it's not sperm it's just clear stuff which I get when me and my girlfriend make out or something, so you're normal

If you're CERTAIN that it IS sperm and not just pre-ejaculate but there is no feeling of an orgasm you must see your doctor about it. Personally I suspect that's it's pre-ejac and that you've never yet HAD an orgasm

Sex is supposed to be a pleasurable experience, but it's hard to feel sexy or intimate with your partner when you have sexual performance anxiety. When you're constantly wondering, "Am I doing this right?" "Is my partner enjoying this?" or "Do I look fat?" you become too preoccupied to enjoy sex.

Constant worry over your appearance or ability in bed can make sex stressful and nerve-wracking. It can even make you want to avoid having sex.

Sex is more than just a physical response. Arousal is tied into your emotions, too. When your mind is too stressed out to focus on sex, your body can't get excited either.

In this article, you'll learn what causes sexual performance anxiety and discover treatments that will help reignite your sex life.

Causes of Sexual Performance Anxiety

Many different kinds of worries can lead to sexual performance anxiety, including:

Fear that you won't perform well in bed and satisfy your partner sexually

Poor body image, including concern over your weight

Difficulties in your relationship

A man’s worry that his penis won't 'measure up'

A man’s concern about ejaculating prematurely or taking too long to reach orgasm

A woman’s anxiety about not being able to have an orgasm or enjoy the sexual experience

These anxieties cause your body to launch a response called “fight or flight.” Stress hormones like epinephrine and nor epinephrine are released in a series of reactions that were actually designed to prepare your body to run or confront a threat. Of course, your partner isn't a threat, which is why this response is so counterproductive to intimacy.

Symptoms of Sexual Performance Anxiety

Your state of mind can have a big impact on your ability to get aroused. Even if you're with someone who you find sexually appealing, worrying about whether you'll be able to please your partner can make it impossible for you to do just that.

In men, one of the effects of the stress hormones is to constrict blood vessels. Less blood flowing into the penis makes it more difficult to have an erection. Even men who normally don't have any trouble getting excited can become unable to get an erection when they're overcome by sexual performance anxiety.

Sexual performance anxiety isn't diagnosed as often in women as it is in men, but it can affect arousal in women, too. Anxiety can prevent women from getting lubricated enough to have sex, and it can take away the physical desire to make love.

Anxiety can take both men and women out of the mind-set needed to have sex. When you're focused on whether you'll perform well, you can't concentrate on what you're doing in bed. A distracted lover is an inattentive lover, which can make you feel like even more of a failure. Even if you are able to get aroused, you may be too distracted to reach orgasm.

Sexual performance anxiety leads to a perpetual cycle. You become so anxious about sex that you can't perform, which leads to even more sexual performance anxiety.

U must just think about sex nothing else