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How can I tell my friends I don't want to go out?

I'm supposed to be going out with a couple of friends today, we've postponed going out for about a week due to bad weather and one of them working awkward hours.

I did want to see them, but last night over Facebook they said they hate me(I honestly have no idea why) one of them called me a hateful *****.. afterwards she said she was joking, but hate is such a strong word, and I don't find it very funny.

I think I'm quite sensitive, I can't help it, it's just me. They know this, ,yet they still say hurtful things. A couple of months ago this friend said she hated my face. She's so confusing and gives me mixed messages. :/

I don't want to see them now. I feel sick because of what happened last night. Thankfully my boyfriend was there to calm me down though :/

So , how do I tell them? I've not been great anyway, , but I don't like making excuses.

Thanks :)

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You need to tell them face to face that there offending you and make sure they get the message. and if they dont understand at least you have your boyfriend to be there for you :)

  • 8 years ago

    You can tell them you don't feel well (which isn't a lie since they made you feel bad) and that maybe you can join them some other time

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