How commonly do white upper middle class 25-30 y/o bachelorette parties have male strippers?

Almost 100% of the time. They admit it about 5% of the time, so that accounts for the ignorance of previous answerers. They just don't know cause they weren't there.

I didn't have one and I guess I am considered upper white middle class.

I make a 6 figure income

I'm white

I'm female

I didn't have a bachelorette party with strippers of either gender.

they don't usually old women on their 40th birthday party get them and people say men act like animals around strippers you should see these women engaging in sexual acts with the male strippers

There's absolutely no way to know this. I'm in that demographic (early 30's) and I've never seen it at the ones I've been to, but if I add in what I've heard from family and friends, it still happens.

very uncommon for any sort of woman, regardless of income level or skin color to have strippers at their bachelorette parties.

Ughh, every day