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Why is she acting this way towards me?

So I met this girl at a dance who is 16 (I'm 17) and we seemed to hit it off really well. We talked for about 20 minutes and then she had to leave. I got her number and immediately we started texting. She seemed very friendly and like she wanted me really bad. She would always respond to my texts and leave a wonky face or some emoticon. About the third day into our constant texting each other I told her how much I liked her, but I didn't ask her out. She said Awww and how cute she thought I was. We continued texting until a local festival started that lasts three days. We kept texting each other but didnt get the opportunity to see each other until the last day for about an hour. We talked for a while and we both seemed to really enjoy each others company (at least I did.) I really wanted to talk to her more but yet again she had to leave. The next day I texted her and she didn't respond. I didn't think anything of it but I tried one more time at night and said I just wanted to talk to her. I told her how I really wanted us to spend more time together and the festival but she kept responding with one word texts like "Really?" And "Yup" and "OK" which just doesn't seem like her at all I tried talking to her again today and she did the same one word response thing.. Am I worrying too much or she just not interested in me anymore like she was earlier? Is it possible she's on her period or something hormonal like that? I really want to continue talking with her but I'm afraid she's going to say stop talking to me or something like that. Any help is appreciated!

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  • 8 years ago

    take a step back and give her some space, it may just be that she feels like you are being a bit too forward or too easy for her. the same goes for guys and for girls; everyone likes a bit of a chase. i dont want to say 'wait' for her to contact you, but you should forget about talking to her for a bit, and if she does contact you then take it gradually. there's a balance you need to get right; don't talk about other girls or try to make her jealous, but dont make her feel like you'd bend over backwards for her. give it a rest for a while and get to know her better before you tell her how you feel, then maybe you could hang out and do things together but don't try and make any moves and dont tell her how you feel just yet it's too early and you might just take the fun out of it.

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