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Guys! Where are the kind, but confident, just the right balance of maturity and fun ones?
So, I'm a confident, fairly nice girl, and yes, I am adorable.
But why can't I find one guy alive with the same qualities? Looks are not the most important thing in the world, but It's like this; all the really attractive, to me, guys tend to be shallow. All the sweet, nice, guys are super needy and not at all confident, or all that attractive, (lack of confidence doesn't help attractiveness) I'm just looking for a charismatic, but romantic, sweet, but not codependant, attractive at least to me, kind of guy.
I'm actually fairly comfortable on my own/being independent but I'm also secretly a romantic and eventually would like to find the right guy.
But all the ones around me, it seems, are either desperate and needy or cold and shallow. No one's perfect but...
Is there any hope of finding that ideal balance in a guy?
4 Answers
- BensonLv 68 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm finding the right girl also, but every time that I think I have found the "one" they end up friend zoning me... Thing is the girls that like me, I have no feeling for. So basically i'm in the same situation as you, i think there are guys out there that fit your description, but not many of them fit all the needs. Most guys want fun first especially if they're under the age of mid 20's. Though If you have interest for someone that doesn't fit your description, I think you need to give them a shot too. Some people change or maybe you will change, and that person may grow on you. It's good that you don't mind being independent because it won't hurt you as much, but just explore your options, because no one is ever going to be the perfect one, just close to it,
- 8 years ago
Im a guy and i think im a pretty decent guy so im gonna let you in on a secret... Good guys are made not born. Most guys who girls end up thinking are the best guys ever for being sweet and nice are the ones that a girl took the time to build up and give him support to where he can build confidence. So if you can find one of those nerdy guys that you can see has potential you can change him and fix him up so he becomes more confident and becomes the guy you want. If you play it right you can make the perfect bf for you.
You could try changing one of the shallow guys but theyre generally already ruined merchindise so youll end up with more trouble than they are worth.
- SalvatoreLv 68 years ago
Yes. You'll find your Mr. Perfect one day, you just have to be yourself now and follow how the river flows, naturally. Patience is virtue in everything. I'm sure there is a guy out there, who will love you for you, you just have to look for him, don't ever lose hope in yourself!
No one's is perfect, but everyone is perfect in their OWN way, you'll find your happiness one day, sooner or later. Your dream guy...maybe he's somewhere close to you right now, you just haven't notice him?
Best of luck. Carpe Diem and keep smiling (:
