Is He Kissing Wrong or Am I?

Question

I've been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now, and whenever we make out, he'll have his tongue in my mouth for a solid 30 seconds. Now, I'm not super experienced but whenever I've made out with more experienced guys, the tongue is in for a few seconds in short bursts. 
Is he kissing wrong or am I the one that's kissing wrong?
Also, how do I tell him he's got his tongue in too far? I mean, it initiates my gag reflex. Do I tell him or is there some way to keep him from doing it?

? · Accepted Answer

He is the one that is doing it wrong.  It should be a tease, not trying to stick his tongue down your throat.  Just a heads up that if you ever decide to have sex he will probably the same way.. just stick it in and starting pounding.  I have no idea about how to get him to quit doing that, it sounds like you are going to have to talk with him / show him how its done.

BajunaJewelry · Answer

That's hilarious!  You have to talk with him.  You don't want every kiss to be a little war.  No guy will kiss the same as another but people learn to blend in kissing and making out.  I would start out by saying to the guy he's a nice kisser but could he back it up a little because I'm gagging.  I am trying not to laugh but tell him.  Guys only become good lovers by being great listeners.  
You could also try making a gagging sound, maybe even a loud gagging sound, when he goes back too far.  Kissing is a two way thing.  If he really doesn't get the message after trying to show him what you like, don't let him French kiss you.  Don't let him do something you don't like.  It will just encourage him to not listen in other areas in making out.

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone has a different kissing style so there is no right and wrong way to kiss. As far as the tongue going in too far my boyfriend does that too so every time he did that I'd pull away and now he's taken the hint that I don't really like that.

Monsieur Rick · Answer

You are not kissing him wrong as he is not kissing you right at all.  The kind of kissing he is doing should be done as a slow dance with your tongues ~~deep penetration can kill the scrupulousness, deliciousness and the intimacy in a second.  A guy who really knows how to kiss, makes you  comfortable enough to follow his lead.  He will kiss you maybe 10 seconds, give you time to breathe and then wanting you to want more.

(: Rachael! · Answer

No, he's doing it wrong haha. If you can, then yes, tell him he's sticking his tongue in just a little too much. If you don't want to say anything, just back away a little when he's doing it. He should catch on that you want a little more distance.

SimpleAnswers · Answer

Close your mouth more. Lock it with your tounge

Anonymous · Answer

just stop him from doing it ?

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