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How can I help my 11 year-old sister realize she doesn't need to act slutty & mean to get attention?

Okay, so my youngest sister, let's call her Molly, is acting like a grade A b-i-t-c-h. She dances dirty in public, curses, hits people, talks sexual, and acts out some pretty graphic scenes. I try to help her, but she ends up making excuses & I get mad & I just blow up knowing it's not the right way to handle things. She is starting to be really mean towards me, my mother, my middle sister, and even teachers, anyone that would help her, but she'll be nice to someone who turns around and treats her like crap. How can I help her understand she's going out of control. We have grown up in a super strict, religious household that we both want to get away from. My middle sister, we'll call her Rose, doesn't, but instead of helping Molly, like our mother, she just gets really mean towards her & calls her a whore & stuff. My mother has called me & Molly whores & sluts many times for wanting to break away from a religion that dictates what we wear, what we do, & basically everything, but she isn't doing this in the right manner. Breaking from a religion isn't the same as turning into someone she's not. My baby sister isn't like this. I understand how she can think this because she models how she should live outside of our faith from movies & romance novels, whereas I base my life from my friends who are super supportive. I'm trying to be supportive, but I can't if she's pushing me away.

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  • 8 years ago
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    You can give a example of someone you know that started young and turned out to be a slut and now nobody wants anything to do with her. and ask your sister do you want to turn out like her? and if she says yes thn there's really nothing you can do!!

    Good Luck

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Your mother sounds very religious if she uses these words ? You need to just act as you know what is correct, as if she doesn't want to learn it will end up biting you on the b u m . Live your own life and set your own standards, then if they do not want to follow, then bad luck to them. And good on you for turning from religion it is all mythology. Science has proven we evolved from the apes, study this and the universe and you will know their is no god. The Hubble Telescope as seen millions of light years away and has seen no evidence of a god.infact the evidence shows every day to more and more people that to them they were wrong thinking their ever was a god.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I'm 11 and tell her if she acts like that she will end up a dead hooker in hell

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