My girlfriend isn't a virgin and it's really bothering me!?

01. Move on. Unless you can get past that, you'll never be able to finally have sex with her without feeling like you are the leftovers.

02. You're both 17 & usually those relationships in high school don't last a life time. It's rare. Most men & women move on to university & broaden their social experience, meet new people & find more suitable people to have relationships with — you have more in common because of your similar chosen studies.

03. To be honest with you, your current girlfriend doesn't know how to cross her legs with guys. The last boyfriend she had sex with 5xs. Maybe she thought she was in love with him. Maybe that happens with every guy she dates.

04. Your studies & grades are really the most important thing right now. You need good grades for university. Don't let this young lady distract you from working hard to have a good future. Be busy.

Good Luck.

is it a moral thing, is it a religious thing, is it a ownership thing....whatever the 'thing' is...if you cant accept it, dont penilize her for it,...i am sure if you cant/wont deal with it, then someone else will be more than happy to accept her for herself, just the way she is...without the judgements that prevents you from enjoying a relationship with her. you are who you are, it doesnt make you right or wrong....but you do seem to be wrong for this girl, because she cannot undo her past, and that bothers you, so it will make her unhappy as well...so in the end you will both be miserable...perhaps someday you will look at this differently, but right now from the point of view that you have...do you believe it will work out

Dude either deal with you dating a girl that's had another guy inside her 5 times or dump her and finding a virgin. I'm not trying to be offensive but those are the facts.

When I got with my boyfriend who is 3years older then me me being a virgin and him jot used to bother me to but that's nothing u can control I wasn't even in his life at that point. The past is the past and u have to put that aside the point is she's with you now and she loves u and she's abstinent until your ready that's all that matters. U can't control a person's past. And u should beat them up for it either because everybody has a past before u. Just tell yourself okay she's with me now and that's all that matters goidluck

you are not old enough to have sex if your sex partner not being a virgin is bothering you. just calm down and get over. i would suggest waiting a few months. also talking about it and sharing your concerns with her. communication is key...

Don't worry. By the time you finish college, no women you meet will be virgin. Welcome to 2013.

What would be different if she was a virgin?

either talk to her about it or leave her