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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 8 years ago

My grandma is two faced?

I am a 20 year old guy and I go to my grandparents house they live 5 minutes walking distance from where I live.

Anyways I always ask my grandma if she needs help with chores around the house cooking cleaning yard work whatever and she always says no every single time and if I attempt to do something on my own and take initiative she says no Im not gonna do it right or she will hire somebody.

And then she turns around and tells my sisters whos about 2 years older that I dont help around and im lazy and stuff and I just dont get it

another thing that bothers me is Im always there if they need something while my sister puts her friends first

I feel like ignoring my grandma and just going out and doing other things even though she practically raised me I dont wanna put up with this

Update:

No I know for a fact for a 65 year old woman what she is perfectly healthy she gets regular check ups and the doctor says she is fine she is very active and even runs her own business

I know that she didnt forget because this literally happened today and I asked her if she needed help she said no and then 10 minutes later she told my sister I dont do anything to help around

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  • 8 years ago
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    Funny thing about young fools is they grow up to be old fools if they don't change their foolish ways. Have you ever asked your Grandma why she does that? My grandma took me in when I was 13 and I always respect her. Lately she's been showing her behind acting out of character but I still respect her and show her the same love I always have. I'm assuming your Grandma is up in age so you should focus on cherishing the time you have with her versus her being messy/two-faced. Just go spend time with her and if she asks you to do something, do it, and if she doesn't, don't, simple as that! Hope it gets better for you!

    Source(s): My grandma is a little coo-coo too!! LOL!!
  • ?
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    8 years ago

    Did it occur to you that she might have a medical problem and that she simply doesn't remember?

    Why don't you talk to her about it?

    Ignoring her is juvenile and won't solve anything.

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