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I dont know what to do I dont wanna hurt my grandmothers feelings?

I am a 20 year old guy and due to recent events I had to move out of my old house

and I have 2 options

Move in with my aunt who lives with her long time boyfriend they have a big house 4 bedrooms three bathrooms and its only them and her boyfriend already said I could move in if I want

or live with my grandparents they have a 4 bedroom 2 bathroom and its only 2 of them

now my dilemma is I had to move immediately and my aunt and her boyfriend were out of town so I moved all my stuff to my grandparents house and am sleeping here tonight,

My grandma even cleared everything out of her office room for me and well she really wants me here only problem is shes kinda strict and she expects me home at like 10pm all the time

My aunt doesnt really care what time I come home or whatever I will have more freedom there

my grandma said if I wanna leave she will be fine and it wont hurt her feelings and I dont know what to do now I wanna leave but shes really excited and I know she will be sad if I leave

Update:

I do visit my grandparents regularly im here everyday

I didnt have the best parents so my grandparents and my aunt basically raised me

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Tell your grandma that you love her very much and are very grateful for her giving you a place to live. But, you would be more comfortable with your aunt since she is younger and more like a parent. Tell her you will still see her all the time. Also tell her that you feel close to her boyfriend and feel you can talk to him about guy stuff. After you move out, make sure you visit your grandmother often and keep reinforcing the fact that you love her very much and you appreciate all she does for you. Tell her that you wanted to be honest with her but never would want to hurt her feelings. Make sure it really is ok with her. Then go there and visit grandma often

  • veganchick
    8 years ago

    Well honesty is great cause you get it out all at once but if you are willing to try to not her you can do the opposite, you stay for 3 weeks, 2 months and then you say it is to hard cause she is strict and talk about leaving...

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