What should I do about this situation?

Yes, he could be depressed. He has to snap out of it and do what needs to be done. You need to sit with him and create a plan where he looks for a job on the internet and in person for 8 hours per day. If your lease is up, you have to tell him that you , yourself , with the baby - will be moving. You will move in with a relative or rent a cheaper, smaller apartment or just a room. Tell him he must begin looking NOW. It's been 6 weeks. Come on. You have to take care of this child. Tell him you will be moving, then you will have no choice but to go to Family Court and ask for child support. He will have to then find a way to pay that support. IF he can't, they take away his license and he goes to jail. Tell him you don't want that to happen!!!

If you work out a plan for him to start looking for a job, that may help him get motivated. You are not responsible for supporting a full grown man.

He's depressed and you two, although not married, are having the same issue that married couples go through. If he isn't getting enough sex, he relates that to you not caring which feeds his depression .making the cycle even worse. If he has the time and isn't helping out with the cleaning and cooking and all that jazz, your not going to be much in the mood to have sex.

That is only one small part of the bigger pic, you two need to sit down, be honest, work out a plan, if you can't do it yourself, get some couples counselling.

The job thing, he feels like a failure and hasn't any idea in what direction to go. He has a family to support and he knows he can't, probably is looking into the future and doesn't see any answers or ways that he will be able to support you.

Again, sit down, see if you two can work out a long term plan then work out a plan on the small steps to get you there. A doable plan may spur him to action.

No moral of the story sit him down and explain that if you do go back home with the baby on your hip your filing for child support on him. He's looking at having to pay (regardless of not having a job) a judge will make him get a job or put him in jail. He will lose his drivers license too. Explain he needs to make it a job looking for a job. each and everyday. No more excuses not looking.

Make sure your on some birth control too. The pill is a cheap $9 bucks a month....a hell of a lot cheaper than you having another baby!!

Get tough with him. And yourself.

Tell him that he has to make other living arrangements as you will not be renewing the lease. Lie and say that you will be moving in with your parents and they have said he cannot move there. Tell him on no uncertain terms that he has been given notice and will be homeless if he does not find another place.

Tell him if he doesn't get a job you're done with him