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Is it possible to be in love with a girl?

Is it possible to be romantically in love with a girl but not be sexually attracted to her? I have considered myself to be bisexual but recently I have really fallen for this girl that I enjoy spending all my time with. We do all the things that most girlfriends and boyfriends with the exception of having sex. We get really close to doing it, sleep overs, dress, and undress, lots of affection, petting and kissing but when it comes to having actual sex with her. I just can't do it.

I'm not a virgin and have been with a number of other guys sexually in the past but I have never been romantically attracted to them. It's always just about the pleasure of sex. With my girlfriend it's different, I'm romantically in love with her but when it comes to sex I prefer another boy. Is it possible to make this work? Has anyone else ever felt like this?

Update:

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  • 8 years ago
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  • Andrew
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    It is possible to be in love with anything.

    For example, I love weed. So much so in fact that I'm going to be looking for a job in CO or WA just to avoid having to quit. Although, I have to figure out which state protects their employees the most from being fired, cause I might go somewhere else. and I have to make sure that the NCEES will still let me be a Profession Engineer if I have a MMJ card.

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