I have fallen for a guy I probably shouldn't have...?

I ended up with my ex husbands best friend for a little over a year after we seperated. like u said it sounds worse then it is usually, as my ex and his friend had had a falling out about me about a year before we split cuz his friend didn't agree with how he was treating me while pregnant. i had known his best friend a short while before meeting him so we had been friends 4yrs prior to beginning a relationship. there will be jealousy issues which could make it no walk in the park. but follow your heart, your ex is an ex for a reason so in the end what his opinion is doesn't matter. nobodys does!!

Ahh well it's up to bob, if they are really good friends and will make up then he shouldn't pursue you but if if they aren't that great friends then it should be ok if you feel for him. you can't help how your heart feels and its none of your es's business what goes on between you guys. he had his chance.