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What is wrong with me, I get attached to people too quick!?!?
I think I need help of some sort! I left school and entered straight into a relationship that ended up lasting 7 years before ending last xmas when he ran off with someone else.
I've been single about a year now, there have been a couple of guys I've dated, I seemed to be really into them and get attached really quick but they just aren't interested.
Anyway, a few months ago a met a guy, he's lovely etc but for once I didn't feel the need to text constantly/see him constantly and though I had finally reached a point where I didn't feel like I 'needed' someone. I've decided he isn't for me, I just don't feel that 'spark' although he is a lovely person but.. Fri eve I started chatting to a guy, Sat eve we met up and just chatted for a few hours, he seemed nice. Sun eve he came over and we watched some tele then fell asleep cudding.. We woke up said goodbye then I got into bed a fell straight to sleep so didn't text him. The next morning I sent him a text just saying it was nice to see him, thanks for coming over etc.. I've not heard anything back yet its all I can think about! I keep checking my phone, I keep seeing him online on the site I met him on and its driving me crazy.. why the hell do I feel so clingy when I only met him a few days ago?!? I know its not normal, but can't seem to stop myself feeling like this and stressing over it :/
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- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Give it time. Usually needy girls overcompensate because they know they're needy, so they're purposely become aloof and distant. That's just as bad as being needy. You have to find a balance. It's really quite hard to diagnosis why you're so needy. It might be related to your role in your family. Talk to a psychologist if necessary. Nothing to be afraid of.
- 7 years ago
Well don't beat urself up for being clingy. I wasn't clingy enough. My bf constantly wanted me to text every morning and stuff and I didn't do at the first few months because didn't want to seem desperate or clingy I thought he might get annoyed. And it pretty ruined the relationship after he started being distint and it was too late to be clingy cause he had reached a point in the relationship where he just didn't care what I did.
Even though I wanted text him all allot and talk to him all day I didn't and explained why above but it's just good to be yourself. If he doesn't like it. It's not meant to be that's what my ex boyfriend told me. All it's normal to stress over it. I did too even though my bf didn't behave this way in the very first few weeks of our dating/relationship phase.
