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is this wrong? if i tell my parents theyll throw me out?

ok so im a muslim and if i told my parents that i dont believe in the religion they will throw me out of the house! i could wait until im 18 and living on my own to tell them, but if they ever knew they would be so disappointed!! i dont follow the religion and i dont like any organized religions. i just believe in god, thats it. but if i stay muslim and dont tell them that i dont believe in it, they wont let me marry anyone whos non muslim, and when i marry someone i want it to be someone that i love, and i dont really care what their religion is. what should i do about my parents?? should i tell them? (im fourteen by the way) also is it bad that i dont follow the religon and dont believe in it?

i should also add that my dad married a christian, but my mom converted to islam when they got married. but they both have mentioned to me that i cant date/marry a nonmuslim (because thats not hypocritical at all!! :/ )

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  • 7 years ago

    Why don't you believe in Islam anymore? Islam is the only religion which has proofs of its authenticity.

    What if you die the next second in a state where you are not a muslim? What will you answer to God? Study Islam.

  • First off for a 14yr old you sound like a very mature boy.I applaud you for following what you believe and not your parents.Religion is a very touchy subject but each and everyone of us has the right to decide what religion their following.Your parents are brain washed like a lot of people are.You know what you need spiritually don't let anybody at all try to sway you otherwise.

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    7 years ago

    You keep your mouth shut is what you do. You can go to religious services but it doesn't mean you have to pray and it doesn't mean you have to believe in any of it. You do what you have to do to protect yourself until you are 18 and free to make your own choices. You do not feel free to say derogatory things about your parent's religion. You start making plans now and start saving money in case they ask you to move out when you are 18 and start flapping your lips about your non-beliefs. They may not want to pay for your college education so you need to start planning now on how to support yourself and keep a roof over your head and how you can take part-time classes and work toward a college degree.

    Anticipate the consequences of what will happen and make plans to take care of it.

    Best of luck!

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Maybe explore the religion more with a friend, you might find it better when you have someone your age doing it with you and you might actually see the reason in islam

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If your parents love you the way they should they will respect you and your beliefs! They can't legally kick you out. But honesty says a lot about you. So do what is best for your person. Always respecting the people around you.

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