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what to do if i love my gf but im not getting anywhere with her? long distance?
im a guy but with my gf dating it hasnt felt real at all like i would say something meaningful and sweet and all she says is ok or awe, and she always hangs out with her bestfriend which is like a 30 year old guy and shes like 15, im 17 but she seems more committed to him than she is to me, and she always delay our dates from 1 week to 4 because she always gets into trouble with her best friend and we have never met in person yet, and she always act like she is not into me and id say i love you but she says ok every time and i asked why did you not say it back and she said the reason is because she's still getting over her ex and im considering a break up with her, sorry if this makes no sense but what you should understand is that im getting no where with her, what would you do if you were me right now?
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- ?Lv 77 years ago
hi Bailey: you barely know this girl. If she keeps getting in trouble she may not be your type. If she really wants the freedom to date she needs to be mature enough to do her school work and stay out of trouble with her folks. And this best friend that is 30 seems odd too. this girl may have mental "issues". If I were you, I would not consider myself tied to just her. I would be looking around for other girls to date. but I would not drop her yet, because if she really is trying to get over an ex that does take some time and she may need a breather before she is ready to date again. So for now, hold on to the sort of date you have scheduled in 3 or 4 weeks, but feel free to date others in the interim. But consider this is her final chance. If she push off the date again, then you drop her and say something like, when you are ready to be in a relationship, let me know. Or maybe, you find a different girl you want to date, then at that time you drop her. but if you have no one waiting in the wings, there is no harm in keeping on with this girl and see what develops over the next week or two. but if the drama does not die down, then you will have to drop her.