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Biological over step kid?
I have a son from a previous marriage and I'm getting remarried. My fiancé and I have been together for about 4 years so we are quite acquainted with each other's family. My fiancé and I also have a 2 year old daughter together. I feel that since we are getting married that when my daughter goes to events for the kids from my fiancé side that my son should be included also. Am I wrong for thinking this way? My fiancé told me that my daughter had to be dropped off with his sister so that they could go to a cousins bday party. So when I asked about my son, he stated that his other sister can't drive her car so her kids have to ride with them so there's not enough room for him. He also added that my daughter couldn't not go because the cousin comes out to her parties, which I would never suggest. On one hand I'm pissed and the other hand I blame myself that my first relationship didn't work out even though we tried. This makes me get cold feet about the marriage all together. Am I going overboard?
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- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
they should include your son now, he is just as much a part of their family as your daughter. If they won't allow your son, you should tell them your daughter will not be going either. He is your daughter's brother, and you are about to get married, so that means your husband's side accepts EVERYONE into their family, which includes your son
- 7 years ago
Honestly you have the right to be piss and rather they like it or not you and your son is and will be part of the family. Your son should be included at a FAMILY INVENT and if your fiancé is allowing your family to treat your son as trash you don't belong in the family while his sister is allow because her father is your fiance biological daughter then I would think about brake off the wedding and brake up with your fiancé.
If he loves you and his stepson he would of put his foot down in the began and bluntly tell him that he part of the family and he WILL be attending and anyone mistreat him well then I won't be part of family who treat someone like trash because they are not bio related. Since he not your sons going to suffer in long end and your marriage doom to fail.