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What should I tell this older guy?

Asking again because the answers were cryptic.

I am in my late 30s. He's in his late 50s. Met online but not in person yet. In his profile he mentions his need for sex twice, and says he is looking for a long term, short term or casual sex relationship. I am definitely not looking for casual sex. He is tall, nice looking, otherwise charming and seems intelligent and successful in life. His first message to me was that he wants to be my boyfriend. I took that as a just a pick up line. I blew him off, but he emailed me again saying he still wants to be my boyfriend. He is a different race and I do not want to be some goal to check off on his bucket list. What say you all?

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  • 7 years ago
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    He sounds weird and sleazy. I mean, who says that to some girl they've never met before!? He could either be trollin, really desperate for a wrongly assumed easy lay, not socially aware / no social skills, or simply a complete creep. You pick! Any good luck, hope things work well for you, and be safe!

  • 7 years ago

    leave him he only wants one thing from you and thats not a relatoinship even though he seems smart thats how some guys are and nobody can change the

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