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Help me! Does he even care about me?
Okay so I've been seeing this guy for a few months. We both agree that a relationship was not right for us when we started to see each other, because he was still living with his ex. He claimed she was living with her sister until she/he could moved out. This bothered me so I told him maybe we can further our relationship once things got more figured. So we remain friends and helped through something major that happened to me about a month. I started to like him more and more we hanged out with each other. We became intimate (Even though I knew it was wrong, but he claimed he was not with his ex) I asked what we wanted of our relationship, and he told me he still not ready for a relationship so I decided cut ties with him. I figured it would be best before I got even more attached with him. But even if we talk at work he constantly ask me if I'm talking to anyone else. His attitude towards me has done a 180. I'm might be living the job next week, so I will not have to deal with him anymore. He told me he wants to remain friends, but I don't think that will work. I don't know why he constantly asking who I'm talking or seeing. But if I mention his ex he is like it's none of your business now that we are just friends.
3 Answers
- AvaLv 57 years ago
Without a doubt, this is *not* someone you should date. Trust your instincts... do not remain friends with him. Don't worry about whether he cares about you. You know yourself better than anyone, and you realized that you are just getting more attached, the more time you spend with him. It sounds like he is insecure, and controlling. If he intended to exclusively date you in the future, he would not tell you that his relationship with his ex is none of your business now that you are just friends. In other words, if you were having sexual relations, then he'd tell you whether his ex was still in the picture!! I have dated my fair share of the "wrong type of guy" in the past, and from my experiences, I can tell you confidently, that this guy does not intend to exclusively date you. That last sentence just made my skin crawl, because it is so manipulative, and you don't want any part of that. You *are* a strong, intelligent and beautiful person, and you seriously need to do what is right for *you*. There is an explanation for the 180. He doesn't want to date you, but doesn't want you to be with aomeone else. Do not become the girl-on-the-side, because you deserve *so* much better. Hope that helps!
- SamanthaLv 57 years ago
You should avoid him, it sounds like he will only cause you pain. It's not okay or normal to live with your ex, more than likely something was still going on and he was playing you. His questions about your personal life coupled with his privacy about his own says enough. He doesn't want to get serious but he wants you to want him to be serious. He's playing a game. Guys like him are a waste of a good girl's time.
- Anonymous7 years ago
No.
Sorry.
Enjoy eating vanilla flavored ice cream for the next 2-3 days.
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