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How do I react to this?!?

I'm currently in year 11 and 16 years old, I have a boyfriend who is almost 17 and we have been dating for 18 days.

At the start of this academic year a boy in year 10 (we shall call him H) (15 years old) joined the school, I was actually quite interested in the boy at that time but after him showing no interest I also lost interest in him.

Recently I have noticed that H has been spending a lot of time looking at me and has been making more of an effort to talk to me and start conversations. H is a ver nice person and he is polite and friendly. Even more recently the staring has became very intense and after accidentally making eye contact with the stare I can see that it also have a very sexual connotation to it.

My best friend has also noticed it and she is on the same bus as H, she has also said that H has been making a conscious effort to be nice to her since he knows that she is friends with me.

I received a text from my friend yesterday saying that H had pranced onto the bus holding a bag of condoms after lying to the school nurse about having a 17 year old girlfriend, he then proceeded to asking her if I was single. After hearing that I was not he looked disappointed and then asked how long we had been dating , stating that "there is time yet". My friend tells me that he obviously got the condoms with the intention of using them on me.

How do I deal with this situation? My boyfriend feels threatened by H. Would it be possible to hold a friendship with H?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    If you really like your boyfriend then stay with him because 'H' seems like he just wants one thing......as do most boys of that age. Wait until he has grown up a little and if he still likes you for exactly who you are then consider your options again

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Ignore him and don't become friends with him as he could start rumours and split you and your boyfriend up. Tell your boyfriend you aren't interested in H. Don't ruin your relationship over a player

  • 7 years ago

    "H" is a player he won't reset until he gets what he wants which is making girls lose their viginity with him . You must ignore people like that he will use you and then leave you . I hope this may have helped .

  • 7 years ago

    Reassure b/f and cold shoulder H

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  • 7 years ago

    tell H to back off

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