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Im being bullied!!!!!!! Help???????!?
so im a 13 year old girl and hes a guy. it just started when i wz talkin 2 my frnd and he just butt in. he started mocking me, swearing at me, and threatening me. I tried standing up 4 myself but he kept owning me and calling me lesbian and transgender. I tried to defend myself but i couldnt and what really hurt is that my frnds didnt help and they started laughin at how he was bullyin me. some ppl even came over just to watch us and laugh. i really hate him and i cant stand him. most people would say that hes insecure and hes jealous of somethin and blablabla but if i tell him that, he would make fun of me and say that it's corny. ppl say tht if u ignore someone it wil get them mad and it would be like u won the arguement but he tried to start another arguement but i ignored him and he backed off but i still feel like a loser because in my opinion, ignoring someone shows that you are weak and that u cant fight back and if u ignore the bully and they back off it shows that they think your helpless and cant fight. hes one of the popular guys at skool and people would laugh at anythin he says even if its really dumb. is there a way tht i could get revenge without getting in trouble? or is there a way tht i could own him in an arguement? thx 4 your help but im sure probably no one woud answer this since there are so many questions on yahoo answers and this is the first time i ask a question on yahoo answers but i would appreciate it if you gave me advice srry if this is too long
thx for answering but now hes moved on to bullying my best frnd
6 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
I think that you should tell a teacher. Don't be afraid to do that, he should get punished for his behavior. If he carries on doing that, don't tell him anything or warn him and just go and tell your most trusted teacher or like the principal himself so he could punish him. Don't hit him/mock him or sth because you can get in trouble for that. I understand what you're going through... Stay strong and good luck!!!
- 7 years ago
God.... i feel you and im telling you that stuff parents teach is bullshit. They won't stop if you ignore em, but it doesnt help either to fight back. Id recommend demanding action against him and don't listen to no until they drag you out of there
Source(s): Experience :-( - Anonymous7 years ago
Tell the school counseled or the teacher. He will get in trouble. Perfect revenge. 😉 that's what I did and he was so embarrassed.
Source(s): Experience. - Lily RLv 67 years ago
These sort of bullies do it for a reaction which was why he backed off when you ignored him. You didn't bite. I suffered bullying throughout school and the more I bit, the worse it got, until eventually I stopped biting. By the end of school I actually became popular and considering I am transsexual that is saying something. But by this point i stopped biting to bullies and giving them the reactions they wanted. They want you to get mad, they want you to argue and try and win them over. By ignoring them, you may not feel like it but you actually are winning cos you don't give them the ammunition they require to continue bullying you and they get bored.
Source(s): 21 year old pre-op male-to-female transsexual who was bullied up until my last 2 years of high school - How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
- 7 years ago
well i say that dude is a total pr*ck.. maybe you can get it on record then show the teacer? I'd kick him in the balls without a care.. and tell him to back off.. but thats just me,, lol dont worry about anyone else hating you just because hes popular doesnt mean you shouldnt stick up for yourself.. and i wouldnt call them friends if they dont help you and tell him to back off.. thats stupid they should be their for you.. if we were friends and you got bullied i would make sure he got in trouble.. my opinion is find something that he can be imbarresed by and imbarrese him infront of his friends maybe even the whole school..
- Anonymous7 years ago
Hes just so lame the way he does that. Tell an adult!!!!!
