My father wont leave the house?

How can I get him to leave so, my sisters, mom, and I dont have to move?

I am about to end my junior year and I really dont want to move to Texas from California for my senior year. My dad has not left the house and doesn't plan to and I HATE HIM. My mom is depending on a drug lord guy to help her move into an apartment in Texas, but she wont tell me what area, so i can talk to my councelor about my options. My mother gets mad at me whenever I ask that question, she says she wants to make my teen years the best ever, but i doubt it. Im moving my senior year of high school to a completely different area, i just would want to get over it since the friends ill make wont have the same connection. When I tell her I am coming back to california after finishing high school, she calls me selfish and that i have no family in califonia since everyone hates us.

I dont want to depend off a drug lord, and my mom is in love with this guy, and told me even though he has a wife thats pregnant that she will have an affair with him. Its going to be the same thing with that guy, she unconsciously goes after the same type of guy she is leaving and gets mad at me fot telling her she is repeating the pattern. The guy treats his wife like ****, but i want my mom to be happy since he is extremely kind to her, he saved her life once. But my father treats her like **** too.

What can i do to get my father to leave? He is not very stable and tries to manipulate us emotionally. I worry.