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Was I raped?
I'd know this guy for a few days and I decided I really liked him, we were making out in his bed and he took my pants off and started to penetrate me, it hurt so I told him to stop but he didn't. I kind of liked it but I felt dirty and bad and just wanted it to be over.
Does it count as rape since I said stop?
6 Answers
- ronich69Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
Simple... If you say "No" or "Stop" and he still does it... It IS rape.
AND... It doesn't matter how far you go or at which point you say it either.
- Anonymous7 years ago
No not really, if you were honest with courts and say you enjoyed it and liked the guy it's very likely they would drop the charge there and then. Making allegations of rape is very serious, you have to weigh up whether you're making the right decision. You would get the boy in a lot of trouble, lose his friendship as well. However I don't think you have a case anyway.
- 7 years ago
Letter of the law, sure. But, no it seems like you went along with it. Dont make a little situation big when their have been other women who have really been raped. Will not hold up in court.
- Pat BrownLv 67 years ago
yes, this sounds like rape. the fellow continued with his intentions even after you asked him to stop and indicated you did not want to have intercourse.
It is hard to accept that you have been a rape "victim", esp when the rapist is someone you know, even slightly, and even thought you liked. That is the definition of date rape.
I hope you consider being tested for STDs, pregnancy prevention steps, maybe talk to a counselor at a rape crisis center who will be familiar with the situation you described and can help you sort it out emotionally for your own well-being.
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- rabbitofthenightLv 57 years ago
yes. The moment you said no, and the moment he kept going was the moment it was rape. Rape is not having the other persons consent, even if part of you enjoyed the attention, the attention has nothing to do with consent.
sex without consent is always rape