My fiancé almost cheated?

Without trust, you have nothing. So it's obvious you need to move on.

But it's even more important that you recognize what you did wrong here, because humans behave in patterns. If you don't figure out your own mistakes, you'll repeat them. And your mistake here was getting engaged to someone with major red flags hanging around. Don't forget, when you accept someone's ring, you are pledging the next 60 or so years of your life to that person. At a minimum, you should trust them completely and you should be able to tell them anything. If you don't have that, the engagement is premature.

Apparently he is not as devoted to you - as you are to him. Better to learn this now than after you have married - with all the emotional and legal issues marriage (no matter how short) bring.

Tell him it's over and why. You not only don't need the stress he brings to your life - you can certainly do better.

It won't be easy and it will hurt - but one day you will awake from the fog of pain you're in right now and see the sun again. But learn from this situation so you don't repeat it.

What an infantile rant. almost cheated? what nonsense is this? he was just your boyfriend not your husband. he just talked to some girls on social media he did not sleep with them. You are making an entire mountain range out of an ant hill. you need to check yourself You sound like the social media police and relationship gestapo here. I would run from you because you sound childish unrealistic and more than a little crazy. You love him but you want revenge. Revenge for what. You are making you feel miserable not him. If you do not like what he is doing get a new boyfriend you cannot force people to change. If you don't like that behavior now you are not going to like it married. You are overreacting in a way that is not normal You sound like you have mental issues and need to get help with that before you are ready to be in a relationship must less be getting married to anyone

A relationship is built on trust, without trust you have nothing but crinkled devastation. It's natural to feel 'jealous' and want 'revenge' but the best revenge for you is to leave him. From what you're saying he does not deserve a woman like you. He shouldn't be talking to multiple 'girls', you should be enough for him and the fact that he was hiding this from you suggests a lot. Also you are unsure if he has cheated, if you can't trust him imagine if you got married and you couldn't trust your own husband? I think you should review your relationship.

He is clearly not worth your time.

Do not marry him, your life would be a nightmare of suspicion and doubt.This is no longer a good match, even though it had once been. That's why people wait awhile before getting married, to see of this kind of thing happens, and it did. Move on, he won't change and neither will you.

So is this what you want your life to be like? Two years later you're still checking up on him and he's letting you down.

If you marry him, remember: you knew what he was like before.

Don't marry him, he's not ready, he wants to sow his wild oats so let him and you do the same, be with a man who thinks you are all he needs. Good luck and find someone a little more mature.

I think that you are right .in fact I know you are right .I've been trying to forgive him for so long and my heart just doesn't want me to leave him.I tried so many times to walk out but just couldn't

Teres no way out of it. You are a dumb, low class, **** with a poor education. You can't expect to attract prince charming with those qualities. Try to improve yourself with study, hard work, chastity, and a career, and then you may be in a position to find a better man.

If you believe that he "almost" cheated, you are too dumb to be in a relationship.