Very Embarrassing Issue with my GF?

Ok so she isn't going anywhere don't worry she has strong enough feelings for you to help you through this issue ! My suggestion is straight vanilla sex doesn't get you excited enough maybe try spicing things up trying something new can do wonders for your sex life it doesn't have to be really different even buying some toys can help ! Talk to her about role play maybe ?? 😙 a friend of mine spiced up hers by buying a toy for them to play with and it worked wonders ! Why don't you do that ! Hope this helps :)

I wonder if you're just not attracted to women. I realize that's a "hard" (sorry) way to find out, but it is very telling. I've never had trouble getting aroused by the sweet ladies - and I'll go at it all night long. And that's because I love the ladies. Don't want to break it to you, but I think most in these forums would suggest you prefer men.

I think Barry Thelawyer could be right. Women don't do it for you. This probably wasn't what you consciously hoped to do, but I think you just came out as gay in here?

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

That hard on you get in the morning is known as a 'pee hard on' and is not brought about by sex or dreams usually, just the need to urinate. You might need to try other things with a girl to get aroused and sometimes guys need the girl to initiate the foreplay, so if she's willing and wants sex from you, get her to do the first fooling around by playing with your penis, give you a hand job or ******** or sit on you naked...something to get you going.

Maybe she could try new ways to excite you in that way? Talk to her about it and work it out together.