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Does he only like me for ...?

Okay so i known my bofriend LOVES me. and i love him. But somtimes i think he only likes me for when were "getting in the mood' but thats only when we have privacy. he lives an hour away from me so he goes to a diffrent high school. And i dont know if i can trust him. Mostly beacuse i have major trust issues. but since were teenagers i dont know ... I love it when were in public though. Hes allways laughing with me and looks like he loves me. Hes also very pertective. Like when we are in public, like yesterday we were in stores together and whenever other guys look at me he pulls me closer . which is cute. but over all hes an amazing boyfriend. He is allways holding my hand, singing to the radio with me. and were allways laughing with eachother. I love him but i think he likes me more when im sexual with him and stuff.

he accepts that im not having sex untill marraige and stuff, But im always having dreams that hes cheating on me with my best friends. Later on this week were going to Disney on a date but i dont know what to do how do i get past my trust issues.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    My advice would be to find your shared interests and spend time together to bond as friends over life experiences. Good relationships start with the foundation of friendship and honest communication, so ask your boyfriend about how he views your relationship - only you two know what you want and how you feel. Every one likes to feel desired, but love consists of people looking out in the same direction, not at each other. Just ask yourself, what kind of person do want as a partner in this chapter of your life? Also, ask your friends, they can be perceptive of things your hormones have blinded you to. Lastly, Laci Green has many informative videos on sex and relationships (a seriously useful and enlightening tool): https://www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen/videos

  • 7 years ago

    He loves you, you're just really overreacting. I get that it's pretty hard to get past trust issues, but trust me, he wouldn't cheat on you. All the signs you just told us are proof that he is a good boyfriend. Just pursue the mindset that he is not a cheater, because he quite probably isn't :) good luck

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