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Ladies, Should I Dump Her?

I'll summarize this as concise as I can. I've ben dating this girl a month. I'm noticing the following red flags:

1) She texts a lot less, makes fewer plans.

2) She is kind of snippy with me lately, almost like she's looking for an argument. I know girls usually do this to test guys but it's terribly immature and annoying.

3) She said the following after a political debate: "It's a good thing you will never meet my father".

4) I went out do dinner with her last night for her business and she said "I haven't referred to you as my boyfriend to my boss, so he makes fun of me for that".

Those to me are HUGE red flags. I want a woman that's proud to be with me, that likes me as much as I like her. I was ready to dump her last night because I was very insulted by that. I then approached her and said "I'm getting some signs that you are becoming disinterested".

Since that, she's texted me every morning, she's re-assured me she's very interested, she's invited me to her cousin's birthday and wedding, and has made a secret date for me Aug. 7.

I have no idea what her deal is. She's giving me very mixed signals.

So, ladies... should I dump her and avoid future heartbreak? Have a talk with her about it? Or just go along with it? What is she thinking?

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  • 7 years ago

    break up with that girl. you said it yourself you want someone who likes you just as you like her. she also doesn't refer to you as her bf to other people but want to be exclusive with you.

    sounds fishy, she must like your attention not you.

  • 7 years ago

    You should dump her . Soon you will realise that u were some kind of timepass material for her. I mean she is showing interest for the time being only for that. Don't hesitate. Do it now.

    Take care :) :)

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Boy you need a girlfriend that will respect you shes not sharing the news with her family or friends and shes doing it private so break up with her slowly carefully not to break her heart so much

  • 7 years ago

    It's not so much that you should dump her, but you should definitely not consider her exclusive girlfriend material. You can keep dating her casually, but you should definitely keep playing the field and seeing other people. Make sure she knows that you expect that she is seeing other people too.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    yes

  • 7 years ago

    she sounds full of herself. dump her

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