I'm frustrated in my relationship!!!!!?

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I have put so much effort in this relationship and I'm getting frustrated because he keeps on ignoring my messages on Facebook and he's done this several times in the past but I'm tired of saying (you there) I'm also sick of waiting for him to come online so I can say hi because he doesn't ignore me if i do that for some reason. I love him so much we have been together since late May and I think this is the longest relationship I have ever had and it's a long distance relationship to and I'm starting to get thoughts that he doesn't love me because I said I love you 2 times and he didn't say it back. I want this relationship to last forever or even longer but he's ignored me so many times that I'm starting to get tired of messaging him saying (are you there) do you think I should post a status about how I feel or something to get his attention. Any advice or help would be helpful.

smoky10 · Answer

My advice would be to stop messaging him every 5 minutes. Give him some space. I know it is a long distance relationship, but you need to fill your life with other things and people, because you are appearing to him as needy and that is why he is not reciprocating any "love u" txts (your behaviour may be questioning his love for you) Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and for them to work you need to show you are capable of occupying your time, and have trust. This may be the longest relationship you have been in, but you need to be more emotionally mature about it and right now you are turning him off by being too clingy. Just relax go out with friends go shopping etc, show him you can take care of yourself and are confident in yourself. He is supposed to be your BF not your carer after all. When he sees you are not hounding him all the time he will be more impressed and will long to message you first, rather then you always messaging him. Of course when you do go on FB ask him how he is, ask about his day etc and tell him about things you have done for the day, tell him about your future plans maybe you were thinking about changing jobs etc. It could be about anything but just don't keep questioning his love for you. Your life should not revolve around him, guys don't like that. Hope this helps

Winter · Answer

girl break up really he  wont do a thing . OR DONT text him     do it as long as HE TEXTS YOU FIRST. Respect yourself !

Sierra Norton · Answer

Well from my experience if he really likes, you likes you, he would say it first or better yet never leave you alone an text you every second he gets. Trust me I've found mine an I love him to death, but if he's not trying to receive your attention every second he can then I dought it will last much longer I'm sorry but it's probably gonna end pretty soon

Anonymous · Answer

I know exactly what you're going through, chances are your under 18.
Everybody thinks they met the love of their life, and contrary to belief it's not true.
You got to live your life, and if it works out when he grows a pair, and treats you the Queen like you should be treated.
Why treat him like your King, if he doesn't treat you like his Queen?
Just do you kiddo.

Anonymous · Answer

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