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FRIEND ADVICE? okay so lately iv been feeling uncomfortable with some of my friends, they are all really immature and i don't like it...?

its gonna be a long story.. so please read it i need help/advise.

okay so im a 15 year old girl, and in my school its really cliquey.. or school is liek divided into 3. the bottom, the middle,and the top/popular. im in the middle, but i dont really like any of my friends they are all immature and cant take me seriously..

i have decided i want to switch friend groups. ..... but how?

long ago i used to be best friends with one of the popular girls ( before the school became so cliquey.. long story short.. she "dropped me" and went to the more popular girls.. well not really dropped but she was ignoring me and only talked to the popular girls.

i really dont know what to do, i really am not happy with my current friend group and i want to switch to the popular girls group...

please help.

thank you kindly for reading this long message.

xxxxxx

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I'm going to be straight up. This is high school. HIGHS CHOOL. That's it. It's just four temporary years. Four very drama packed, temporary years. Education is important, but what's more important is learning how to be comfortable and happy within yourself. Try talking to your friend group. They are your friends for a reason, and you must see something good in them. Explain that there are qualities you appreciate in them but don't like the way the can act sometimes. In certain situations all it takes is a good heart to heart talk. If you do want to branch away, just be comfortable and happy within yourself like I aid earlier. Be you, and like minded people will come. This cliquey mentality that you see in high school will pass. I'm a seventeen year old going into my senior year, and it took me all of this time to find a good, solid, conducive friend group.

  • I know there are people not in groups! Find something in common with a few of them and start your own group. A loose group who don't always meet up together. I would not be able to hang with immature people. Or you and your group should find something they can focus on besides acting out. Talk to one of them, they'll help spread the word that you want to be more serious. Good luck but what's more important? Education!!

  • 7 years ago

    Trust me, my school isn't clique-y, but I am one of the mature ones of my group. I do, however, love my friends even though they're stupid and stuff, and would never leave them because I've gotten so close to them and can tell them anything. However, if you're looking to make new friends, find some activities they like to do. Maybe join a club they're in, try the things they like, etc.

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