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Why can't I get a boyfriend?

I'm 12 years old and in year 8 and I just can't get a boyfriend! My personality is fine I just don't know what is wrong with me? Any tips?

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  • Noori
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Nothing is wrong with you. You are really young and got a lot of time to date. If you chase the boys then there is nothing good that comes out of it. These boys notice you do anything to have a boyfriend and may use you and trick you into their fake love. My parents always said, you can only date if you are sure you can have a child in that age because we won't raise it and it won't be viewed as a problem. I got my first boyfriend at age 19 and I got 2 diplomes. Now I am in college, I am 22 I am glad I didn't had a boyfriend earlier because I got to live, I had my girls and my school, i was in dramaclass and in sports. I got to do a lot of things. If you are 18 and never had a boyfriend you can question it, but right now there is nothing to worry about. Mr right and wrongs will come in time. And besides there are more important things to do right? Don't forget your friends, family, pets, hobbies, school. Focus on that;

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with you. The right person will come along and 12 years old is too young to date anyway. People you know might be dating but guys are very immature at this age anyway so don't stress. I know many beautiful people who never had a boyfriend through high school.

  • 7 years ago

    You are still young at 12 years old to be looking for a boyfriend, don't you think? Why not focus on your studies first and wait until you reach 18 years old to have a boyfriend. Why your hormones cannot wait for 5 years?

  • 7 years ago

    are you serious?

    12 year olds should just try to relax and have fun with friends, because as soon as you reach high school you won't be able to have those luxuries. Worry about boyfriends when you are like 17-25 years old.

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  • 7 years ago

    Im 14 and i never had a boyfriend. You are 12. Don't stress about that. Get good grades, get real friends, get through your puberty, watch teen wolf and live life. One day you'll meet your Scott McCall

  • 7 years ago

    I'm not gonna say your too young for a boyfriend because then I'd be a hypocrite. One reason might be be because the boys are scared to talk to you. Why don't you ask a boy out? Granted, it's scary but you can ask your crush out and if he says no, say,"Thank god, it was a dare." If he says yes, your golden. :)

    Source(s): Ehhhh.
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    You can't get one Because you don't need one. And as a pointer most guys go for looks, not personality.

  • 7 years ago

    YOU ARE JUST 12 AND YOU DO NOT NEED TO START A RELATIONSHIP. But if you dont get one in the future then mayne it is because of your physical and mental features. BTW, ONE DOES NOT JUDGE ONES PERSONALITY.

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