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Do you try to work things out when in a relationship or do you give up easier now that you're older?

This obviously doesn't apply to those long term high school sweet hearts... but mid to late 20s (if people that age even chat here anymore). Do you try to stick it out when youre dating someone who pisses you off, or do you find you lose less and less patience

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  • Ashley
    Lv 5
    7 years ago
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    I am 22, been with my man for 5 years,

    he cheated on me, got a girl pregnant, lied about having facebook, and we agreed I wouldn't talk to guys he wouldn't talk to girls, and last night I found out that hes been lieing, been talking to this girl whos been sending him pictures, taking her out on his bike, and I wanted to fight for my relationship, I didn't want to just give up, but ive been trying for months things were so perfect, till he cheated on me the night I had our 2nd son, and it went on for idk how long, and now he tells me if I mention if hes cheating he just gonna go do it,

    it hurts, I tried to change so I wouldn't push him away, or fight, I would control my emotions, but now last night he told me he does take the girl out just as friends, but I know there has to be something.

    he is controlling, and jealous, but if I get jealous he wants to leave me. so I tried to put up with it, sticking it out, staying by his side, but I just feel like giving up, he isn't putting effort in, and clearly he is bored and wants something else. so let him go right

    I think when u get older u idk u can try to put up with it, ur smarter to work it through, but then also ur older so u know better what crap u want to put up with u know

  • 7 years ago

    I work things out, I don't like carrying a grudge

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