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Ran into my ex of 20 years ago, do you think this was immature? I broke his heart way back when then we finally reunite he acts like he is?

Update:

still angry about it. Although it is obvious he still likes me. Is this normal? He was pretty mean towards me. Do you think this is normal behavior after so many years have passed?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
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    When I saw my ex bf after 20 years, I literally ran out of the restaurant. He was mentally and verbally abusive, and I had gained 30 lbs. (was pregnant). All the memories of his abusive behavior triggered my memory of him and I guessed what he was thinking.

    I always get nervous around him, feeling like the 17 year old he dated. My guess with your ex bf had old memories that were triggered when he saw you.

  • 7 years ago

    If he's acting like he's angry and he's being mean to you, it's safe to say that he doesn't like you. You haven't described any behavior that looks like it's immature - he's entitled to dislike you.

  • 7 years ago

    Why would you believe that the mere passage of time should excuse your hurting him ?

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    He acts like he is WHAT?

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