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Atheist dating an Evangelist Youth Leader?
So, I met a guy <--- Always a great start to a story. (I want to keep this simplistic, so this may seem like point form, and not the Oscar Wilde-esqe prose you may be accustomed to on Answers).
We're both 17. He came from Central America a few years ago. He is an Evangelist Christian, and the Youth Leader of his Church.
I am an Atheist, or, at least a Non-theist, because I don't believe in God and I don't think about it.
We met at a school dance last spring. He watched me dance, then joined me, and we salsa'd. It was wonderful and perhaps a bit provocative (as other students noted) and so it came as a surprise to learn that he is quite religious.
My question here, for all of you lovely religious and non religious folk is: Can two people with such different backgrounds be together? (He has expressed interest and we've been flirting...*swoon*)
And, if he is this religious, may it be that he is playing me, since he knows there will be no future, and is instead looking for some fun?
I just don't know what to think. But, Yahoo Answers has never let me down. Have I given all of the important information? I think so.
Oh. It may be important to note that I am tolerant of his beliefs, as he doesn't seem to be prejudice against any groups). If he was intolerant, you and I wouldn't be having this discussion. (A very one-sided discussion, at this point).
Oh! And I told him I'm an atheist. He said "Hmm...Let's not talk about these things."
I don't know what to think. I'm rambling. Thank you very much in advance. I tip my hat to you all.
4 Answers
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Well, you're 17 - so it's not like you're throwing your life away with potentially dead-ended relationships. If you wanna pursue some semblance of a relationship with a guy who may or may not be in it for the sex, then that's up to you.
I say go with your gut and salsa with this potential serial killer (not that I'm not implying that he has heads littering his basement which he feeds to captive children from over the border or anything) until you can subtly get him to marry you without him realising it. Then you just wait 30 years and cash in with a divorce.
Cha-CHING!!
....what were we talking about?
- Scarborough FairLv 77 years ago
It depends. If you can be open minded and consider his religion, you might come to believe in it. If you are strictly against what he is committed to, there might be a short time when you are strongly attracted to each other, but you will most likely not have a long happy relationship together.