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pro1137
pro1137 asked in HealthMen's Health · 7 years ago

How to get over my fears of embarrassment due to my appearance during sex?

I'm bisexual. I'm almost 19, and I'm a virgin. I'm not exactly skinny, and I'm pretty hairy. Every time I think about sex (regarding me), I always have the fear that my partner will do one or more of the following:

1. Laugh

2. Puke/gag/etc.

3. Simply get up and leave

4. Not be turned on whatsoever

I used to not worry about these things as much. Unfortunately, that changed due to people online who said I was really cute. They (all guys) begged me for nudes. I delivered. They ceased communication. I suspect it has more to do with my body hair than my weight, but I can't be too sure.

I have a tendency to be paranoid, and I'm well aware of that. However I don't know how much, if any, of my fear regarding this issue is paranoia.

Has anyone any advice? Anecdotes from your own experiences?

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  • bender_xr217
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
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    You'd be surprised.

    There are plenty of gay and BI's who are attracted to bigger hairy guys, guys they refer to as "bears". Not to mention a large portion of women also like bigger hairy guys.

    What you deem as a flaw or some kind of obstacle that needs to be overcome can actually an asset. You just need to advertize it as an asset.

    As far as sending pics to people you've met online in fleeting encounters goes... what did you expect? Most people who ask for pics online are just looking for instant gratification no matter if they're gay, straight or Bi.

    Advertize yourself as what you are and be proud and confident in it and you will attract people who are into those who are like you.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    You are so naive you never give anyone nude pictures of yourself to anyone ever. They could come back to bite you in the butt big time. You are no more bisexual than the man in the moon. You are just confused sexually. Get your head on straight and then find yourself a girl to date.

  • ron h
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    You may or may not be bisexual, but like Anonymous said, pic collectors are all over the place.

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