Husband just flipped on me?

Unless your husband spent a s**t load of money on those strippers they didn't give him the time of day. For those women, your husband and every other man out there, are nothing more than a walking talking wallet. When the dollar bills stop coming they move on to the next fool. I can understand you having a problem if he were still hitting the strip club with money that should be going into the household, but something that happened before you met? Well that's just silly and childish.

"He said nothing happened. We have been married 9 months. Ran Into the stripper he had a thing with..."

OK, it's obvious why he flipped out on you. Because you do not listen to him and you do not trust him. First, he said nothing happened. Then you interpreted that as "he had a thing with her". Ummmmm, no. That's not proper English, it is emotional bullshlt. I never would have married a girl like you in the first place. If you are that hung up on a man's IMAGINED past...then you are not ready to be married.

He has every right to be mad. You are out of bounds. It's his business to begin with. But according to him, nothing happened anyway. So you shouldn't just drop it...

it should have never been an issue

If you don't change your attitude immediately, your jealousy will destroy your marriage.

It was before the relationship. You weren't in his life then so it isn't your business whether "anything happened." If it had been during your relationship, that's another story. But if it was before you got together, he doesn't owe you any explanation at all. Bringing it up could be seen as emotional harassment.

My guess is that you frequently quiz your husband about his past with other women and he is probably getting angrier and angrier about it, so he "flips out" because of the frequency with which he feels he must defend himself. This isn't good for your marriage. Might I suggest that you see a counselor about your insecurities so they don't destroy your relationship?

If I married someone then it is my business. I'm sure you would be the same way. How about you find something to do then comment asshole remarks on a yahoo site. Haha

If he didn't do anything then why would he freak out like that?

Exactly.

Must have been the last straw that broke the camels back. You have either nagged him about her in the past or you embarrassed him when you said that out in public.

you either nagged excessively in the past about her, and every time her name came up there was a huge fight, so hes sick of it being an issue, or he is being defensive for a different reason. you only tell us that you pointed her out, and he got mad. we don't know everything.

My guess is there is more to the story of his relationship with this stripper than he has ever told you and he is fearful of being discovered. Or, it may be that something happened with her that embarrassed him and he does not want to see her.

Your a nag and you know it presses his buttons, this will only lead to disaster, if some one keeps bringing it up , then why not do it anyway..bye

Did yall work it out when you got back to your trailer?