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Is there a term for this sexual fantasy I've been having?

I've been seeing my current girlfriend for about 5 months now. I've found that if I can get her to talk about her past sexual experiences, I really get off on that. I mean, it's gotten to the point where I crave it. I've even gotten to the point where I get turned on by the thought of people checking her out. The weird thing is, if I actually witnessed someone checking her out, I'd step in the way. Also, if any of her stories contain someone that I've met, I won't want to hear it. I'm not a cuckold, by any means. The thought of watching my woman with another man (or woman, for that matter) makes me furious. She isn't particularly comfortable with these stories, but she tells them anyway to make me happy, which makes me feel bad. She still turns me on immensely without them, so it's not like it's a requirement. I'm just curious, is there a term for this fetish of mine?

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  • 6 years ago

    Jealousy is a double edged sword. As angry as it can make some people, it can make others turned on more than anything else. I think it's a cool thing when guys get turned on over their woman's past sexual experiences, or even the possibility of it.

  • 6 years ago

    i think you're just proud to have her. i would say it's normal, i've heard lots of guys be that way. it's rare, but it's there and not completely bizzare. maybe you just get pleased easily by the thought that you have a hot girlfriend everybody wants.

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