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WHAT CAN I DO TO GET OUT OF LONELINESS ?
I CANNOT DATE WOMEN OR HAVE A GIRLFRIEND YET.SO DATING IS NOT A OPTION.ANY OTHER IDEAS THANKS
4 Answers
- GeomiLv 76 years ago
One surely can talk to girls at school, or watch girls' teams if you have sports for females at your school. You could join some clubs at school.
You may spot a girl that you may like and talk to her at school. You may talk to girls that you know in your neighborhood. You may apply or ask if some businesses in your area and volunteer some free time to them to help them and you may find some girls to talk to who patronize those businesses. Good luck. I was a college professor in the field of education.
- ez2tock2Lv 76 years ago
PRACTICE improving your popularity, confidence and conversational skills with the opposite sex. You won't be lonely when you practice and If this scares you, you won't be bored, either.
BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE both
REQUIRE PRACTICE.
PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.
(High School / College / New Town / New Job)
Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or develop insecurities in themselves.
This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention.
Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.
USE SMILES (to make them relax),
USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),
USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves
when they are around you)
All this may sound scary to you,
but aren't you already scared anyway…
And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are)
CHANGE will Always be uncomfortable…
until it becomes the way you do things.
Practice and try this out:
Start by NOT making a big deal out of it. You'll only worry yourself.
SMILE at all the girls. "ALL" THE GIRLS.
Not just the ones that appeal to you.
This is PRACTICE… NOT Let's Find a GIRLFRIEND/BRIDE.
Say "Hi" to some or as many as possible. Don't pick and choose who you say "Hi" too, because some of them have other friends
that you will like and they could do the introductions
for you at some point.
Just like Sports... PRACTICE being popular.
Practice is the start to most things.
Keep in mind and REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly has
"NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.
Smile. Say "Hi". Tell them your name, ask them theirs, compliment them on something you like about Them,
BEFORE you let them say their name.
It plays out like this.
You introduce yourself and compliment (the stranger) right away without letting them say their name. In case They were considering rejecting you, They now have a smile on Their face because of the compliment.
You just need to keep it there.
Then say... "I'm sorry, what was your name?" while still smiling.
One of the weakest qualities guys have with women is, the ability to hold a conversation. The secret to a conversation is asking a fun and simple question that a girl would enjoy answering. Example: "I like your fingernail color. What color is that?" She says: "Ocean Spray Blue." You reply: "I knew you were going to do that. As a guy I would have said "a light shade of blue", but women always 'detail' their colors. Do girls get 'special training" on colors or what?" She'll giggle and give you an answer. Ask her to name another color or Why is it girls do that? Now you have her in a conversation. She is enjoying a guy enjoying her company.
Learn to Joke with people. It shows a sense of humor as they smile in your company. Example: "I heard the other day that TIME IS MONEY. Would you like to spend some with me?" If She ask "Time or Money?" You SMILE and say. "YES."
PRACTICE this over and over. It's only scary the first 3 or 4 times. Be nice and conversational to ALL the girls. Even plain girls have feelings and attractive friends, neighbors or cousins.
Be Respectful, you'll be remembered better.
Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For
Will Probably Find You.
If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls) in the future.
Players call it "Having Game."
REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly has
"NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.
Because its only practice...
it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again.
Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times.
There is still a BILLION girls you haven't met... YET!!!!!
and Visa Versa, girls that haven't met you.
Source(s): ez2tock2me.com (lotsa help for the lotsa questions that follow) NOT a Phing Site!!! - Anonymous6 years ago
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