Would you keep dating a guy if you think he's good for you, but you don't really love him?

It's difficult because I am in the other situation where I love the guy in with but I know he's no good for me. I don't think either of these situations are a good way to be, the person you are with needs to be right for you and if you don't love someone you shouldn't be with them as it's not fair on them.

If I don't love him then it would be too hard for me to even want to spend time with him. I would feel horrible forcing myself to be with him. And not just for my sake but because I would be lying to him about everything. I always put love in the forefront of it all. If there's no love in it then there's nothing for me to get out of the relationship.

Good, bad, it doesn't matter to me. In the end, I believe that there is good in every person. Whether you see it or not, is a matter of you wanting to see it. And accepting him for who he is, not for what he could be. :)

I'm facing a similar dilemma right now. I think sometimes you can begin to fall for someone and it's not an instant connection I think you should feel things out before you end it or something like that.

Yes, for his sake, keep on sleeping him. Just fake the love part, it's not that difficult, and just read a Harlequin Romance Novel every now and then.

you say you don't love him, BUT more importantly do you actually like him and yes is he good for you. are you content and secure when you are with him. if your answer is a most definite yes, then stay with him. if no then think careful should you he with him.

Yeah. Maybe in time I would learn to be fond of him. As long as he loves me and is good for me then I'm good.

Hello,

No I wouldn't, you would just be leading this poor guy on otherwise.