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So she lost her passport and me and her sister flew home without her. I've had to lend her all the money I had on me, and I'm scared I won't get this back.

She ruined the whole holiday as it was like babysitting and she is so irresponsible. Should I of stayed with her? She is currently staying with some English people we met out there.

We spent all evening cuddling and kissing at his, but when I tried to touch his willy there was hardly anything there. I am not being shallow as my ex had a small(ish) penis but made it work, but this was absolutely tiny I couldn't even play with it.

I really like him but I don't know how to go about this. Any ideas? Do I give up on him as I don't think I will ever be sexually satisfied. He did make me *** with his fingers but is this enough??

So I like this guy and we meet up as friends a lot with my friend and her boyfriend. I would love for us two to go out for dinner or drinks but I don't know how he feels.

I get the impression he isn't really interested in having a girlfriend, yet he told his friend we were kind of seeing each other. Do you think he is waiting for me to make a move? I feel like I need to work out what he wants before I fall for him even more

So we always meet up as a four. Me, him, my best friend and her boyfriend.

He told one of his friends we were kind of seeing each other but he always texts me now and again once, then when I reply he doesn't reply.

We have all booked to go on a weekend break together in April, so I don't want to ruin our friendship by then but I'm starting to really like him. I don't know what to do as if he doesn't like me in that way it would be so awkward going away together.

Are there any subtle hints I can drop so he knows I do like him in that way

So I have tanned myself for many years now. I am 24 and have probably been tanning since I was around 18. I sometimes let myself get paler than other times, but sometimes I cannot sleep if I haven't applied my tan.

I actually lie there worrying about waking up being pale and have to get out of bed at silly o clock to tan myself.

I don't ever go really orange because I use expensive tan, but I want to look dark brown. I actually feel sick when I look at myself and I'm pale. It doesn't bother me when I see other pale people just myself.

Do I actually need to seek help on this matter?

So my manager emailed me when I got the job explaining the starting pay and that I would get a pay review after 3 months.

I have now realised (as there were other queries regarding my pay) that I have been paid less than I agreed to start on. It's only 25p an hour less but if you add this up for the hours I have worked I have been underpaid over £100.00.

I have never been given a contract. Where do I stand with this? I checked the email and I am definitely right.

So I have been feeling suicidal on and off for years since I had problems with my parents and alcohol growing up. I have seen them both arrested, been through abortion, miscarriage, my relationship has failed, I'm earning hardly any money in my current job and I feel so low and lonely. I have friends but I don't feel comfortable telling them all this cause I feel like I may lose them too. I miss my ex so so much but he was emotionally abusive and I can't go back there. I cut myself years ago and I just don't know when all this is going to end.

So he owes me around £100 which I would like back but things have ended badly and we have now blocked each other on everything possible. I know he could transfer me the money or post it to me I just don't know how to ask him. Even if I unblocked him he has probably blocked me. Any suggestions please?

So me and my best friend have been going out a lot lately with her boyfriend and his friend. I think his friend is really nice and last night we went to the cinema and he paid for me. I did say thank you last night but he text me when he was home and I replied (he probably then fell asleep) but I haven't heard from him all day. Am I being paranoid? He also said he said wanted all of us to go to the cinema to spend more time with me?

I don't know if he is interested in having a girlfriend right now but I have met him a few times and would really like to start meeting up just me and him, maybe go on a date or something. How do I know what he's interested in?

I'm scared that because I feel lonely and suicidal I will end up getting back with him but I know that it's not the right thing to do

So me and my ex broke up in August. We have been speaking lately but last night he tried to call me about 25 times at 5am and cause I didn't reply he text me saying if I don't answer he will stab the c*nt that I'm with. I was round my friends flat with her boyfriend and his mate.

I have now blocked him on everything possible. iPhone, Facebook etc. But he is still trying to contact me off other numbers and stuff. I sent him a final message saying its best we don't speak right now and that I would like him to leave me alone.

He said he will kill whoever I was with last night and asked me who it was. Nothing happened with anyone but I am single so I can do what I like.

Any suggestions?

So I broke up with him around a month ago and we have still been talking a little bit and I saw him one evening where we had a huge chat about everything.

He has this weird obsession with other females (people he knows and celebrities) and it's like he thinks he's a bit of a player. He likes other girls photos which I have told him bothered me, went out and had a photo put up with him and his arm round another girl, and after I caught him talking to another girl on Twitter he told me he met her on a night out and that his 'friends' gave out his number. I do not trust his friends and they're all single. They're also all druggies and I know they persuade him.

I have told him this but since we broke up I saw he was still liking this other girls photo. He said he didn't know whose it was and if he did it then he was sorry. I feel like he's trying to win me back and saying all this nice stuff but clearly not showing it. He is also on holiday with his family and best mate at the moment.

The face that he was messaging another girl he met on a night out has kind of made me think I can't ever trust him again but he said he knows he was stupid and things will be different. What do I do?

So since then I think it's kind of proven that he's not on the same level as me and he told me first he wanted to keep it but then when he really thought about it changed his mind.

I used to trust him but now I'm terrified of him cheating on me and must think I'm not what he wants at all because he didn't want our baby. He is 22 by the way.

His mum is so rude to me but so lovely to everyone else. I feel like shut and all my boyfriend does is write on Twitter/Facebook about how hot famous women are.

I am at breaking point and even feeling suicidal. I have just been offered a new job and feel like I may need to break up with him and have a fresh start in life. Any help please?

but now he's got different girls he's just met putting '❤️' on his Facebook? Sorry who the **** are they? I just can't compete with these girls what am I meant to say to him to make him think I'm there for him that's different to all these hos

he text me saying his mate just died in front of him and when I read it this Morning I didn't really take it in properly. I tried to call him and text him but he won't answer? Does he want space?

So lately he's started doing things he never used to do such as liking girls pictures on Facebook, taking ages to message back, spending a lot of time on his phone when I'm WITH him. I am not accusing him of cheating because I honestly don't think he would but I don't understand why he's carrying on doing things I've spoken to him about.

I told him I though him liking other girls pictures was disrespectful and he didnt really care and he's continued to do it. I know this wouldn't bother some people but I don't find it acceptable and he's continued to do it.

I saw him Sunday and we were just so quiet and awkward around each other. I didn't know what to even say to him.

I don't think I can take this much more and I am seeing him tonight. How do I speak to him in a nice way? I can't stand arguing

I have been with my boyfriend around a year and a half and things were great at first but this year we have been so up and down.

I had an abortion in January which probably hasn't helped and it was a mutual decision but I feel like I have so much anger built up inside me from everything that's happened.

If we argue now the first thing he says is 'end it if you're not happy' but I'm only trying to express my feelings.

I can't talk to him about anything and I'm always second choice in his life his family and friends always come first.

We love each other but I just don't think this is enough anymore....