Why is my boyfriend so disrespectful? Would these things bother you or am I over reacting?

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So lately he's started doing things he never used to do such as liking girls pictures on Facebook, taking ages to message back, spending a lot of time on his phone when I'm WITH him. I am not accusing him of cheating because I honestly don't think he would but I don't understand why he's carrying on doing things I've spoken to him about.

I told him I though him liking other girls pictures was disrespectful and he didnt really care and he's continued to do it. I know this wouldn't bother some people but I don't find it acceptable and he's continued to do it.

I saw him Sunday and we were just so quiet and awkward around each other. I didn't know what to even say to him.

I don't think I can take this much more and I am seeing him tonight. How do I speak to him in a nice way? I can't stand arguing

Jesslene · Answer

It's going to be an argument because one you will think that the other is not compromising and doesn't care how the other feels.
Who knows what is going on with him. He may be tired of the relationship so he is seeing what else there is. Don't try to force him to decide what is more important because I guarantee that he will either blatantly choose his phone actions over you OR he will choose you but become very secretive. If I were you, I'd think about what I'm willing to put up with. Remember...he is allowed to like pictures so if that is all you're worked up about then that really isn't much.

jokeee · Answer

Try to think of a really interesting thing to talk about and if yet still he is ignoring you or shows no interest then he might be the wrong person to stick around with.

Alex · Answer

no yes you are

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