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My boyfriend does not get along with my family and I love having a strong relationship with them. This makes my life pretty difficult because both sides of my family and boyfriend feel controlling to overcome the other. I sometimes feel like my boyfriend wants to isolate me. He tries to only do sexual things im comfortable with and I try a lot but he gets upset if I don't do something he really wants me too. He also can get in horrible moods and bring me down. On the contrary he wants to make this work and tries so hard, always says sorry first spoils me in so many ways. There's so much I am devastated to lose. I am at a loss because when he makes it down to see me or vice versa (were long distance) we have so much fun. He's the sweetest person in the world when he's not in a mood and tries so hard to put aside some of his sexual interests to make me comfortable. I have this confusing paradox where I'm happiest with him and then the most upset with him. Any advice?

He says he feels hopeless and it seems like he can't be happy anymore. He started out very kind but is very short tempered and snappy to me lately, especially when he gets anxious. He feels awful about it and he is a genuinely good person I don't know how to help him be the happy man I saw before. Things like chewing and other noises and being hungry make him extremely irritable and he sometimes feels like there is no purpose to live until we talk it out. This also causes us to fight a lot more does anyone have similar experiences or know what's happening? Any information would help so much

I want to say that the stories are set during the great depression and portrays families that farm/ live on farms. And for some reason i cannot put the sentence together so it flows well.

I believe it starts with "de" and it's a word for someone who's made up their mind and won't look at another side of an argument.

My head hurts everyday in the evening especially around and underneath my eyes. The pain is very hard to ignore and sometimes throbbing. Also had really bad ear pain one day. Is this worth getting checked out or is it minor?

He brings up his exes in our conversations sometimes and one of his exes still has a bunch of pictures of them kissing and idk I don t feel special or like he actually cares. It s an awful feeling and I don t know how to bring it up without sounding like crazy or something but I also want to make sure he truly cares and I m not just another chick.

Tattoo advice I really considering getting one but would like to gain some more info first. Did it fade fast? Does it require a ton of maintenance? Did you regret it? Recommended tattoo styles etc.

I heard it in a mall and I can't find it anywhere! It's upbeat and a pop song sang by a guy. I know one part of the song goes something like when your gone I go a little crazy or I get a little crazy when you're gone, something like that.

I came across a prom dress today that was the prettiest dress I've ever seen! And the price was unrealistically low like 100$ for a 300$+ dress! I'm only in grade 11 still but I can't help but think about getting it because I don't know if I'll find a deal like that or a dress I like that much again! Should I wait or is it worth getting early?

I like to be around people don't get me wrong. And going out is a ton of fun but for some reason every single time I go somewhere I have to escape to a bathroom. I would cancel a plan if there wasn't a place with a sink and a mirror where I could splash water on myself or just sit and take a breather or something. I have to do this every couple of hours and sometimes even if I'm only around two other people or something. My friends say they think it's weird because I just randomly disappear for 10 minutes when I do it. Is this normal? Or am I super weird for feeling like I have to run to a bathroom to feel better?

I made stupid in the moment mistakes at a couple parties. I tried a puff of a smoke at a house party. And this wouldn't be horrible but then I tried it a couple months later at school, and then I did that about two or three more times in the next couple months. And after that I used a hookah at another party, and then I tried chew. Now I am seriously trying to never do any of it again because nicotine genuinely scares me. I'm scared next time I'm at a party I'm going to do it and next thing you know I'll be 45 coughing my lungs out like my family members. I have never heard any stories of people trying it a couple times and then never doing it again and being free of it. I don't want to be addicted and have to struggle with quitting for the rest of my life. Will I start craving them now? Has anyone been smoke free and happy without them even after trying it a couple times?

I work really good with colour coordinated things. I've tried so many things and nothings worked so far! My stuff is always lost an I never know where I put things. My classes are fast paced so when my things are separated and put in different places it just makes it worse for me. This year I'm freaked out because there's no room to lose things and classes are harder so I could really use some tips on how to keep track of everything and how to solve this problem! :)

I was at a festival and my best friend had his phone on the table. Before we left to the concert ground I grabbed his phone because he let me text someone on it and I was waiting for a reply. I forgot I had it ad it fell on the ground in the middle of the concert grounds. I'm sure its long gone and probably broken but he has no idea it was me that lost it. He also knows he did not take his phone off the table so everyone is looking for it in the camper. what do I do?! do I let everyone know I was the one who lost it or do I act oblivious? I feel sick about it.

I have been cleaning it pretty well so far, doing it day and night. I use a salt type solution that I got from the lady piercing it and it is supposed to be one of the best things for it. Although Ive been following her advice my bellybutton is extremely red. I've noticed the skin closest to the piercing is completely white and the skin around that is very red. When I sit down the piercing sometimes moves up and hurts quite bad and will get stuck every once in a while also. This concerns me because my friend can move hers all the way around and it looks much more healed (we got it done together). I heard her and her friend talking about moving it around lots but I thought you were not supposed to bug it or play with it because your hands are full of bacteria and such. Should I be cleaning it more than once or moving it more? Why are they having a less painful, quicker healing it's no fair! Haha

This year my two siblings decided to get my mom a gift together and leave me out (typical). I realize it's not a competition but I'm tired of falling in the shadows so I want to give her something myself and do something really nice she'll remember. Maybe something I could help her out with. Or something sweet and cute to give her.

I don't know why but I have a lot of trouble in high school I don't really get talked to. I am not bad looking, in fact I am pretty happy with he way I look. I dress fairly well. I'm nice to everyone. And not that shy. But I've always been the person who didn't get asked to dance at dances. I used to like those stupid rate and date things and I'd usually get a 7 or 8 which is very dumb but still hurts. I don't really get attention from guys unless they are going after every single girl in my grade or if in rare occasions a guy quite a bit older will talk to me. It kind of sucks and I don't understand it. Any advice?

I loved perks of being a wallflower, the art of getting by, Penelope, etc. and I literally know of no movies at all. Any suggestions help! Even if they aren't like these ones, i'm open minded!