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my family is messed up?
my dad cheated on my mom and moved out andgot us evicted on purpose by raising the mortgage. we moved to another state and he goes down there after about 8 months of us living there and gets us evicted agaib because he would not get a job. so we end up moving back home... all my life he was abusive, physically and verbally and always said he liked my sister more. my family always treated me really bad but out of guilt tgey wont admit it. my mom is... ****** up. i cant explain it... so anyways i turned 21 and beat the **** out of my dad and now im facing charges. my family drives me crazy by never admitting their wrongs. its like tgey always try to make it seem like tgeir perfect. plenty more things has happened but too much to put on here. and when i do the things back to them, they get angry and call the cops. they never taught me anything. i raised myself. God raised me. but its getting to the point where i feel like im going crazy and just might kill them... ive told tgem that one day i am going to murder them and tgey dont believe me. which only makes matters worse because im serious. i dont know what to do. im not violent. but i want them to disappear! help me. whatbam i supposed to do?
2 Answers
- 6 years ago
You really want to get back at them? Follow this.
1) Take a picture of every bruise or cut that your dad gave you physically. If you don't have one, wait until the next time he tries to physically abuse you, and make sure that there is a mark. Take a picture/video. Make sure that there are doubles (copies), if he deletes one, then you'll have another. Keep each pic on a different device. Even if he doesn't abuse you after, you must have some pics with bruises on you from him abusing you. Evidence is evidence.
2) Tell a school counselor/person you trust about this. They are required by law to let the cops know about this.
3) You're 21. You could have easily moved out of that place at 18.
4) You said that you're faced with charges. You can still tell them about all the times your dad abused you, and how your mom is messed up. You just need evidence (back to step 1). This will put charges on your dad.
5) Why hasn't your mom divorced with your dad yet.
6) If you have EVIDENCE they can't deny any of this sh!t that they do.
7) DO NOT kill them. This will only give you a Capitol Charge (punishable with a death sentence) for murder, even if they are gone. If you do this,you will be gone too. You can get them back by telling the officials of what they do to you, with evidence. Judges like everything topped with extra evidence.
Physical abuse is child abuse, when you were a child. You should've done this earlier, but I think you can still do this. He will get in MAJOR trouble. Just d this. This might not be enough to satisfy all that they did in your life, but at least you won't end up with a Capitol charge. This will get back at them.
- Anonymous6 years ago
No no no don't murder them. Can you call a family member to stay with for awhile. I know this might sound a little crazy to do but all I can say is pray to God about it. Yea I get angry at him for no reason sometimes but this is your only way out. I've been down that road before and my grandmother end up getting custody over me because of the same issues I was dealing with my mom and her boyfriend or whoever he is to her. Contact a church and ask for help or get your own job and place. Try getting on section 8 housing and explain to them your situation.