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Bubbles asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 years ago

We're good one minute and not talking the next, help me decode the male mind?

So I had been talking to this guy I met online for almost a week. We really hit it off. Three days ago we talked all through the night until 4 in the morning; it was really an intense conversation (in a good way). HE was saying how much he couldn't wait to meet me. I texted him the following day casually and he was weird, very short; we didn't talk very long. He hasn't texted me since.

So I just don't get it, things were going great one second and the next nothing. I just want to know what happened so I can move on.

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  • Ana
    6 years ago
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    Hey there! Thank you for answering my question (: I am here to return the favor and hopefully help you out at the same time!

    So i have totally been in this situation before, as in, it is sometimes realllyyy difficult to figure out a guy's behavior. So in my opinion, I wouldn't worry too much. Especially since you guys really hit it off and had a deep conversation till 4 AM (PLUS the fact that he said that he really wants to meet you in person) I wouldn't be too concerned. As simple as this sounds, sometimes people just have their off days :/ I would wait till be texts you again when he's in the mood and you should be totally fine, my friend! (:

    BEst best of luck!

    Ana

  • josh
    6 years ago

    If this was a one time thing (him being all weird over text) then he was probably just having a weird day or wasnt in the mood to talk a lot. However if this is a recurring problem then the outcome is probably more serious, meaning he might not want to talk as much as he previously did. Buuuut Im not him! So the best thing to so is ask him about it! It doesnt have to be a long and serious talk, but just causally throw it out to him! I hope that this helps you!

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    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    You both hardly know each other ! Generally it is women's mind difficult to read ! Matter of another couple of days, to know him better !

  • breanna
    6 years ago

    This is tricky. It could have been something that was said. Or it could have been simply he didnt acctually like you (sorry) but guys say those kimds of thimgs alot and dont mean them

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