Guys: Does feminism make it a harder to date?

You have an interesting set of rules there. The entire point is that no-one is obligated to do anything for the other person.

1) If a man expects sex because he paid - he should have gone out with a hooker. A woman doesn't owe a man sex in return for dinner (no-one ever owes anyone sex!) You will also find that many women (especially feminists) are happy to split the bill. Something to consider.

2) Not sure where you get the idea women cheating is acceptable.... The entire point of equality is the rules are the same. If I've only gone on say 2 dates with a guy and we're not offically dating yet (so we haven't committed to monogamy) it's ok for both of us to see other people. As soon as two people agree to be monogamous (usually onset of offical dating after a few weeks but whenever the couple agrees) - it's not ok for either to see anyone else

3)Usually the man will contact her first for the first couple dates - but she can absolutely contact him first if she wants. If she likes him - of course she is expected to respond! (Hint - if she's not responding she doesn't like you. Do be mindful if you're waiting a few days to text after a date, she'll probably do the same but if it's been a week - move on. She's not interested)

The entire point of dating is to figure out whether you BOTH like the other person. Try to relax and actually enjoy going out with women. Most of us are pretty reasonable human beings :-)

You're dating the wrong people. A man who outs up with that trash is not a man, but a cuckold. Stop dating sluts at dances and go to church if you want a real woman.