Did she really get close to me just to hurt me?

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Meet a girl and she was really cool. We hung out and at first I liked her but then we were just friends, or so I thought.

We've hung out maybe 3 times this month and she knew I was leaving. So she was telling me that we should hang out more and go drinking before I leave for a while. I said sure.

The first day we were supposed to go she bailed because she went to a friend's recital which she told me she might. The next day she said she was too sick to drink but we could just hang out the next day (yesterday). I messaged her yesterday and she just didn't respond ever. It says she hasn't seen it which is weird. I sent her a message again today because I'm leaving abd still no response. I see she accepted event invites and posted something but she hasn't responded and I'm confused.

Why would she get close to me and tell me she wants to hang out and then not even respond? Honestly it kinda hurt me because a girl I was dating just dissed me too.

TheReal · Answer

I hate to break this to you, but hanging out three times is NOT getting close. You texted her, she didn't reply. Wanna know why? Because you hung out three times. She's just not into you.

If you were with someone, why were you hanging out with her in the first place? Had you been a better man to the girl you were with, she wouldn't have left you. Then you wouldn't have been "hurt" by the girl who just didn't care enough to text.

You have a lot to learn. Maybe you need a personality, maybe you need to up your game. Maybe, just maybe, you need to have sex. Then you'll have a different outlook on women, and their perception of you, and you won't be so awkward with them...

Good luck man...

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