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I'm not head over heals with women like used to?

I used to be a hopeless romantic and would often daydream of finding the perfect woman for me. I'd think of all these wonderful and selfless things I'd do in the name of love and us spending every waking moment together. This would even manifest with (obviously) actual women I've known. Sometimes I would become slightly depressed and wonder why I never had a girlfriend and why women never gave me the time of day.

I'd say right around age 27, when I got a brake and actively started dating women, none of whom lasted longer than 3-4 dates, my mentality changed. Even though I'm still attracted to women, I've done away with those thoughts and have become more cynical, and admittedly, bitter towards romanticism and relationships. I'm 29 now and I just don't care that much anymore. Is this a normal feeling or something I should be concerned with? I'd like to meet a nice girl but I feel that this new-found apathy toward pursuing women has replaced my hopeless romanticism and vying for a woman's attention and affections.

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  • 5 years ago
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    By the way, it is spelled heels, not heals.

    Anyways, you're turning old and your thoughts are changing. It's normal. Just date a simple woman.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    yes

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